Love is not this

Love is not this When my wife, Laurel, and I work together as a team, I believe we can accomplish anything. But there have been times in our relationship when Laurel has said to me, “I feel like we’re in a bit of a competition.” In those moments, my heart dropped because the truth was, I was not walking in the most excellent way. “Love … does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” (1 Corinthians 13:4, NIV) Love has no need to compete, to compare, or to brag. When pride enters a relationship, love leaves. Envy says, “I want what you have.” Boasting says, “Look what I have.” And pride says, “I don’t really need you.” But love says, “I’m grateful for you. I’m thankful for you.” I could fill a book with all the ways I’m grateful for my wife, Laurel. She has given me so much in my life and is a testimony to God’s faithfulness every day. When I stay close to her, my life is amazing. Pride isolates, but love connects. Envy corrodes, but love celebrates. In the moment we choose humility, love becomes free to flow once more. Jesus always chose humility. I love the stories of Him washing feet, welcoming sinners, and placing Himself below others to, in turn, lift them up. That’s the pattern of love that transforms communities, relationships, and hearts alike. So today, I want to invite you to celebrate someone else’s success, to serve without seeking attention, and to find joy in somebody else’s blessing. When love replaces pride, peace replaces pressure. Think about this for a moment: Do you quietly compete or compare with others? What if today we could turn that competition into a celebration instead? Jesus, humble my heart and protect me from envy and pride. Help me to love freely without needing to be noticed or praised. Let me celebrate when others are lifted up, and remind me that all good gifts come from You. In Jesus’ name, amen. Never forget, my friend—you are a miracle. Your friend, Grant Fishbook